The Life of a Showgirl: Did Taylor Swift Target Charli XCX in a Song?


Officially, since October 3, The Life Of A Showgirl, Taylor Swift’s highly anticipated new album, is now available on all platforms.

It marks the singer’s 12th studio album, and it’s already stirring chatter for multiple reasons, including a line that could be aimed at Charli XCX.

A Dig at Charli XCX?

I heard you call me ‘Boring Barbie’ when the coke’s got you brave.

The Swifties are known for their passion and devotion, and some fans have pointed to one of the album’s tracks. In the song Actually Romantic, there appears to be a jab at British singer Charli XCX, with whom a longstanding feud would persist for years.

Years ago, Charli XCX allegedly called Taylor Swift a Boring Barbie, and she didn’t miss the opportunity to respond in her new track, giving a nod to a potential drug use.

I heard you call me ‘Boring Barbie’ when the coke’s got you brave,” sings Taylor Swift, in the song.

High-fived my ex and then you said you’re glad he ghosted me. Wrote me a song sayin’ it makes you sick to see my face,” can be heard in the track. Lyrics that seem to echo Sympathy Is a Knife, Charli’s 2024 song where the British artist explores her insecurities and which already hinted at the brief romance between Taylor and Matty Healy, member of The 1975, alongside George Daniel, Charli’s now-husband.

The two artists have known each other for more than a decade, their relationship beginning as a collaboration and a mutual admiration. Charli XCX joined Taylor Swift onstage during the 1989 tour to perform her hit Boom Clap. Later, Taylor invited Charli to open on her Reputation Stadium Tour, one of the most lucrative tours in pop history.

For Charli, it was massive exposure to the American public, even though she would later admit that her musical universe diverged from Taylor’s audience.

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The Real Meaning of Actually Romantic?

Actually Romantic is a song that is about…

In a special edition of the song on Amazon Music, Taylor Swift offered more insight into the origin of the work.

Actually Romantic is a song about the moment you realize that someone else has been in a one-sided, conflicted relationship with you, without you realizing it,” Taylor explains.

She explains that sometimes, a person can think about you so much that you feel you occupy a huge space in their life, without you realizing it. Even if, from the outside, it might look like resentment or an issue they hold against you, she emphasizes that, in reality, it’s a form of attention, almost affection. We end up perceiving it as a sign of love. She adds that it’s flattering to realize you can occupy such space in someone’s mind for free. In hindsight, she even says it’s somewhat romantic.

The relationship between Taylor Swift and Charli XCX perfectly illustrates how two artists with very different trajectories can cross, complement each other, and sometimes clash. Taylor, a central figure in global pop, embodies an accessible and universal storytelling, while Charli stands out as the experimentalist who continually pushes the boundaries of the genre.

So, Swifties, do you think the two women are subtly throwing jabs at each other through their songs?

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Karla Miller

Karla Miller

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